Category: Miscellanous Ramblings

Wheelchair Sex Will Blow Your Mind (and everyone should try it)

Content Warning: trauma, fetishization, graphic sex It’s been a whole ass year since I posted anything and I’m sorry! It was a doozy of a year professionally and personally. I ended a ten year relationship with my best male friend…

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Newsflash: Sex Does not Equate Ownership

And an introduction S.T. Joe Content Warning: Possessive behavior I’m a lot like a dude in that sex means nothing to me. It doesn’t have to mean nothing. And it doesn’t always mean nothing to me, but my first reaction to…

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How Wheelchair on Wheelchair Sex Works

And Why I Won’t do it Content Warning: semi-graphic sexual description, internalized ableism(?) TL;DR Dating someone with a disability like mine is not for me for multiple reasons. For as long as I can remember, whenever I talk about the issues I…

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Cute & Disabled: When You’re Lovers in Private & Strangers in Public

Content warning: secret relationships TL;DR guys want to do me, but only in secret. They have not gotten better with age. Back in the days when I was a virgin, I promised myself that I’d never sleep with someone who was…

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How to Date and Have Sex When You Hate Your Body: a Convo on Confidence & Consent Pt. 2

Content warning: Having consent disregarded, stories that may be triggering to abuse survivors A few days ago, in another post I started talking about self-esteem and consent and how they affect the sex life of a person with a disability….

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How to Date and Have Sex When You Hate Your Body: a Convo on Confidence & Consent Pt. 1

Content warning: Unhealthy eating habits, self-esteem issues [When I created this blog, I used pictures of my body, but I cut out my face and any super identifying markings. This was intentional because I didn’t necessarily want this to be…

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