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And an intro to the Drug Lord Content warning: Graphic sexual descriptions TL;DR I was 24 the first time I had full on penetrative penis in vagina sex. It wasn’t bad. It wasn’t amazing. It was just nice. Skip to…
Content warning: Having consent disregarded, stories that may be triggering to abuse survivors A few days ago, in another post I started talking about self-esteem and consent and how they affect the sex life of a person with a disability….
Content warning: Unhealthy eating habits, self-esteem issues [When I created this blog, I used pictures of my body, but I cut out my face and any super identifying markings. This was intentional because I didn’t necessarily want this to be…
{Content Warning: Dating puts you in some sticky situations, some of which will make readers uncomfortable. As I endeavor to be 110% transparent with my audience about the highs and lows of my love life, I don’t want to offend…
Content Warning: trauma, fetishization, graphic sex It’s been a whole ass year since I posted anything and I’m sorry! It was a doozy of a year professionally and personally. I ended a ten year relationship with my best male friend…
And an introduction S.T. Joe Content Warning: Possessive behavior I’m a lot like a dude in that sex means nothing to me. It doesn’t have to mean nothing. And it doesn’t always mean nothing to me, but my first reaction to…
And Why I Won’t do it Content Warning: semi-graphic sexual description, internalized ableism(?) TL;DR Dating someone with a disability like mine is not for me for multiple reasons. For as long as I can remember, whenever I talk about the issues I…
Content warning: secret relationships TL;DR guys want to do me, but only in secret. They have not gotten better with age. Back in the days when I was a virgin, I promised myself that I’d never sleep with someone who was…
Content warning: Graphic sexual details TL;DR My almost first time was nothing special, in fact it hurt, it was rushed, and left me with some more insecurities. However, it was necessary and while the guy was kind of a douche,…
TL;DR I have sex because…I’m only human. And I love it. I lost my virginity at the age of 24. I was pretty late in the game because I was waiting for a guy that checked the right boxes: relatively…
Content warning: death, threats, sexual assault TL;DR Sexy talk and thinly veiled death threats rarely ever go hand in hand. Picture it: Two lovers, limbs entangled, breaths synced, and nothing between them but a light post-coital sheen of sweat. One…